Monday, October 26, 2009

Lemonade Stand


Even as a little kid, I'd always worked.
The difference with kids today is that many have never worked.
Maybe this is a consequence of our relative financial successes - but it doesn't seem to be in the best interest of future generations.

I grew up in the inland desert town of Riverside, California.
Half my childhood was spent deep in the hood, while the other half was spent in the sprawl of the area's suburban hills.
But regardless of location or financial circumstance - I'd always worked.

While in the 'burbs:
I used to pull weeds in the sweltering desert sun at neighbors homes for one dollar an hour.
I used to set up and run Kool-Aid stands.
I used to substitute babysit for my older sister.
I used to watch homes when neighbors went on vacation.
I used to mow lawns, wash and walk dogs, and wash cars - anything to supplement my minuscule allowance.
My best friends would sell Kool-Aid and used golf balls to duffers at the nearby golf course.
Many had newspaper routes and also mowed lawns.
We kids always had a hustle.

While in the 'hood;
We would collect protection money from the weaker children (sometimes paid by their parents).
We would sell pornographic magazines and condoms to adults and children.
We would break into vacant apartments and charge kids to come to our parties.
We would charge 25 cents a pop to take a neighbor's trash to the dumpsters.
We would collect and sell aluminum cans.
While we never got into the drug and prostitution business - we were on good terms with those who did.

Even in college, I worked.
Not so much to make money, but more in response to my grandmother's threat of cutting my $150 a week allowance.
Since the sewage plant job sounded as though it was the worst on campus - that's what I did.
Upon hearing of me working at a sewage job - my grandmother increased my allowance to $250 a week.
Even after paying for all fees, tuition, books, meal plans, dorm fees and anything else associated with college - $150 a week in spending money put me in the "poor" group of those at my school.

Before I started working at and running bars and clubs - we would always try to make a quick 10 or 20k by putting on Raves.
This business can make a lot of money in a short time,
but if caught - the legal fees, bail and fines wipe out most of one's profits.
After one such incident, I took a second job (probably my worst job ever) making cardboard boxes.
This wasn't something I could do for more than a week so I quit after four days.

But I still needing to pay off some business losses.
I learned construction from some friends in the business.
Since most of the complex mitre cuts of custom homes required a bit of math, I was a natural.
After a few years of solving problems others created by their lack of skill, I developed a reputation as the man to call when someone effed something up.
(Re-building costs more so I did 'aight.)

What's the point?
Only that no one should expect everything to be given to them.
That sometimes we must work jobs that we don't like.
That the downturn in the economy can be overtaken by one's ability to work and properly manage one's resources..

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is definitely a message that needs to be drilled into the minds of children in his country. It amazes me that there are grown men and women who do not know how to work because they have never had to.

I am like you I have always worked in one way or another and I have had a ton of jobs I despised. But, as responsible people sometimes "you gotta do what you gotta do" and it isn't always a matter of what you want to do.

People today are even picky in this economy where there are so many unemployed people because of being taught to never settle. But, being without is not better than sometimes settling for a job that some other person feels is sub par. Today it is a matter of survival.

FreeMan said...

Like you I think there was a sense of getting money at a early age. Maybe because I knew I wasn't going to get any from my mother and maybe because everyone else was doing it. For some reason I always remember being out earlier than everyone else helping the janitor or picking up cans or taking in people's groceries. Either way Hustle was encouraged.

During this recession I am surprised people are hesitating to return to what works. I don't know if it's a shock that things haven't recovered or they lost their hustle skills because things have been good for so long.

On the podcast I told everyone SCHOOL is the best hustle going right now. Just re-enroll and finish your degree while the school gives you access to loan money that can bridge the gap and can be used to start a business. I told a cat that face to face and he told me he doesn't want to go to school.

It kind of took me for a loop because I'm think the situation warrants you finding money and going to school will be a way to better yourself in the meantime.

Somethings in the water this time. It's like depression is setting in and Hustle can't overcome it!

uglyblackjohn said...

Yeah... If they can't swim, at least learn to tread water until your ass is saved.
But most people are waiting for a luxury liner to drift by and welcome them aboard.

The "School Hustle" (GI Bill) was invented to keep soldiers returning from war occupied until jobs were created.
Since whites untilized this resouce - they benefitted by becoming bosses in an expanding economy.

Maybe quotas and AA have done more harm than good in creating a group of people who lost their ability to hustle.

brohammas said...

I was amazed after college graduation, and leaving my home state, that my experience of actually working my way through college, was unique.
I can't tell you how many people have said something like, "yeah I worked my way through school too. I mean, I had too becuase my Dad would only pay for tuition and rent." !?!?!? Thats not working your way through, thats having a job while in school.
My school teacher, father of six, Dad pounded the "get a scholarship or job, cuz I don't have the money" mantra into us from youth.
My sis in law works extra to send her college kid the money he "needs". He came home for a visit last year with a new HUGE tat of a lion on his arm. She still sends him money.

uglyblackjohn said...

"That's not working your way through, that's having a job while in school."
LMBAO!
But true.

Max Reddick said...

I, too, have worked since I was a very young age. The only time I did not work was for about a month after I got out of the military and was searching for work.

As a child, I was taught to work. I was taught that to have anything, I would have to work. But I don't see those same lessons being taught these days. It seems to me as we rise higher on the socio economic ladder, we are failing to teach our children those lessons which got us out of the 'hood in the first place.

uglyblackjohn said...

@ Toya & Max - It seems that those who could benefit the most from these old teachings are the ones least likely to use them.