Peacemaker said; "...For someone with such good ideas concerning raising young men, you seem awfully shallow concerning women's appearances..."
Maybe. But no one is perfect.
Martin Luther King is reported to have been an adulterer.Mahatma Gandhi is reported to have hated Blacks.
JFK's extra-marital exploits have been rumoured for decades.
Even King David became so fixated with a married woman's looks that killed her husband - even though he already had hundreds of wives and ho's from which to choose.
Do I judge the "unattractive" more harshly? Maybe - but it's something that I'm working on.