Saturday, September 18, 2010
A Snap Judgement
Is it that hard to understand?
When a guy judges you on your excessive weight - he is just making a snap judgement on the likelihood of you being healthy.
It is more than just an aesthetic preference.
Judging a woman by her weight is the same as judging her by the quality of her hair ("Natural" and "Nappy" are not the same thing. Who wants a girl whose hair always looks like Buckwheat's?), or the condition of her skin, or the color of her teeth.
Lacking healthy a appearance only diminishes ones chances of finding a mate.
(Although some faults can be compensated for by other positive traits.)
Even if a guy doesn't know it himself - when he judges you by your weight he is really judging you by your level of fitness.